Reflect  Are there certain people you feel more comfortable with?  Are there certain types of situations or interactions when you feel more comfortable with others?  Are there certain people, types of situations or interactions that you know make you uncomfortable. See if you can identify some reasons for this.  Maybe the person is in a certain role that has some real or perceived power over you. Maybe you want something from this person – a relationship, favor, to be liked – some expectation you hope to gain from the interaction. Maybe there is a history of conflict, unfriendliness. 13